By Eve Eifler

As you ponder that perennial question (“What will I do with my kids next summer?”), you may hear all kinds of advice. From talk along the sidelines at little league to e-mails and advertisements, it’s not always easy to separate myth from fact. So, allow me to debunk three of the most commonly heard camp myths:

Myth #1: “Specialty camps are better than traditional camps.”

Specialty sports camps focus on teaching technical skills, not necessarily life skills. A child goes to this type of program to work on the skills for one sport (or one art form or skill set), rather than to be part of a community found in a traditional camp. Parents should realize that specialty camps will not necessarily provide counselors to take care of a homesick child. The coaches and instructors are there to teach skills, not necessarily to help your child make friends. This is why I usually recommend younger kids attend these programs with a friend.

Myth #2: “My son plays sports all year long, so I want to give him a break from the routine.”

While it is a nice break for some kids to fish and hike at camp, others just want to play ball! I advise parents to look for a camp that can provide the sports that the child likes, plus some new challenges that the parents might want for their child. Summer sports are far different than sports during the school year. There is less emphasis on winning. There are no “helicopter parents” hovering over their kids or yelling on the sidelines. And camps hire counselors who serve as role models to teach qualities like good sportsmanship and teamwork. A child who can’t make the select baseball or soccer team at home may shine in a camp environment.

Myth #3: “My friend is the best source for camp suggestions.”

While your friend may speak to her own child’s experience, camp advisors visit literally hundreds of camps each summer. Camp advisory services have years of experience addressing families’ questions and concerns. Advisors ask families the questions necessary to make sure the “fit” is right between the program and the child and can provide families with a list of questions to ask directors. These services are free, helping families to gather information, compare programs, and obtain references and feedback from past participants.

When the time comes to choose a camp, there are a thousand questions to ask. Asking the right questions and getting the facts will make it easier to find a good fit for your child. Once you do, the investment will provide you and your child with lifelong rewards. Happy camping!

Eve Eifler is an Executive Director for Tips on Trips and Camps, a free camp advisory service, helping families since 1971. For more tips and helpful materials, visit TipsonTripsandCamps.com.